Dope Black Queers: The Forum

Join us for The Forum x BQC Groups – a special collaboration between Dope Black Queers and Black Queers Connect! We’re excited to co-host this month’s forum with Black Queers Connect on the topic of Mourning Tradition. Come, meet new people, build a community, and share your perspective.

Whether you feel it has been purposefully eradicated, a consequence of not being practiced enough, or even something that feels at odds with your identity. How do we reckon with that, and in what ways can we make space for ourselves in those traditions?

This is an event where we can really talk about the things that matter to us, to raise questions and find answers both for ourselves and for others. Our specific life experiences give each of us different perspectives, and that is what we want everyone to come and share, because it is in the specifics that we can relate and build community. Whilst participation is encouraged, no one has to share if they don’t want to. But the more interaction, the more there is to learn.

Eventh highlights:

• Games, open discussions, connection and grounding
• Facilitators: Quamina + Chloe (DBQ) & Nic Farmer (BQC)
• Safer Space Holder: Julie-Anne Ntege will be present to offer support throughout the event.

This event is exclusively for Black LGBTQIA+ folks. (Allies can support by donating.)

About Dope Black Queers (DBQ): Dope Black Queers is a space created by and for the Black LGBTQIA+ community to foster grounding, connection, and visibility. The Forum follows a Town Hall-style format — less like a panel, more like an open discussion where every voice matters.

About Black Queers Connect (BQC): Black Queers Connect empowers Black LGBTQ+ adults in the UK by creating inclusive spaces for connection and support. Through online and in-person Black Queer Connect Groups,  events and resource-sharing, BQC nurtures spaces where Black queer individuals can be seen, centred, and uplifted.

Affordable teas & coffees are available for purchase on-site.

Accessibility Info: Everything is on one level with no stairs to entrance. However bathroom is not wheelchair accessible, but we have 2 locations near by (both 2 mins away) that are available for use. Can find full accessibility info here.

Please contact us for any other accessibility queries/questions x dopeblackqueers@gmail.com

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Black Queer Connect Groups – House Rules

Help us reach our goal of building a supportive space, one where people feel respected and heard, please abide by these House Rules:

1. No Shaming: We’re here to uplift and support each other—no judgment or shaming.
2. Respect Boundaries: Be mindful of others’ boundaries. Consent is key in all conversations.
3. Focus on Actions, Not People: If you disagree, focus on the action or idea, not on attacking the person.
4. Containment: If you wish to discuss experiences that could be triggering to you, only do so after providing a trigger warning and if you have the adequate support systems in place to manage any potential aftereffects. It’s essential to prioritize self-care and emotional well-being. Please note that BQC sessions are not a replacement for mental health services.
5. Story Sensitivity: Every story is valid, but not all are yours to share. Respect the privacy and experiences of others, this includes not recording without permission.
6. Active Listening: Engage in active listening. It’s not just about hearing; it’s about understanding.
7. Be Open: Embrace different perspectives. Our diversity is our strength.
8. Avoid Comparisons: Each person’s journey is unique—avoid comparing struggles.
9. Respectful Disagreement: Disagree with respect and share thoughts constructively.
10. Mindful Language: Use inclusive, considerate language. Avoid assumptions or exclusionary terms.
11. No Bullying or Hate Speech: Discrimination in any form will not be tolerated.
12. Golden Rule: Treat others with the respect you want for yourself.
13. Content Warnings: If discussing sensitive or potentially triggering topics, provide content warnings beforehand, so everyone can prepare and decide if they wish to continue.
14. Respect Pronouns: Use correct pronouns. If unsure, ask or use neutral pronouns.
15. Acknowledge Identities: Respect each person’s name, pronouns, and identity. Avoid assumptions.
16. Speak to Moderators: If any issues arise, approach the event organisers or moderators privately. Feedback forms will also be available.
17. Physical Space: Be mindful of personal space. Ask before initiating physical contact, and respect requests for space.

By attending this event, you agree to uphold these House Rules, ensuring a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere for everyone. Failure to respect these guidelines will lead to further action.